Virtual mentorship for adoptees — by adoptees.

The Adoptee Mentoring Society is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization created by adoptees, for adoptees. We offer compassionate, trauma-informed virtual mentorship to adopted individuals aged 12 and older, led by trained mentors who share lived adoptee experience.

The Adoptee Lounge

The Adoptee Lounge is a virtual space where adoptees can connect and build community with one another. We offer dedicated groups for youth, young adults, and adults.

Adults (23 and up) - $10/session
Youth & Young Adults (12-22) - $35

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1:1 Mentorship

One-on-one virtual mentorship offers adoptees (ages 12 and up) a space to explore their adoption story with a trained mentor.

Adoptees (ages 12 and up) - $60/session

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Grounded in Research. Guided by Lived Experience.

Guided by a multidisciplinary team of leading PhDs in adoption, licensed clinical social workers, and licensed therapists, we blend evidence-based research with lived adoptee experience to identify the core skills of effective adoptee mentorship. This expertise informs a replicable model that bridges the gap between adoptees’ mental health needs and traditional therapeutic services.

From The Blog

Dive into real stories, reflections, and resources from our adoptee and mentor community.

Recent Articles
Real Conversations, Real Impact: How Mentor Coaching Benefits Mentors & Mentees
Real Conversations, Real Impact: How Mentor Coaching Benefits Mentors & Mentees

The mentor coaching sessions aren’t just practice–they’re real conversations with real impact. AMS Coach, Bonni Goodwin, an Assistant Professor at the University of Oklahoma published new research that highlights the importance of simulation-based learning. This method significantly improves confidence, self-efficacy, and skill competency..

How Mentorship Differs From Therapy
How Mentorship Differs From Therapy

Therapy is about identifying wounds, diagnosing pain, and applying evidence-based practices to treat what hurts. Mentorship is a two-way street built on mutual sharing, trust, and personal connection.

From ALMA to The Adoptee Lounge
From ALMA to The Adoptee Lounge

How the 1970s adoption reform movement shaped my journey—and how today’s virtual community continues the legacy of connection and healing.